Never Get Angry | Nouman Ali Khan | illustrated | Subtitled
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I was at a masjid not over here in America. I was at the masjid, and I was sitting in the Talking to some board members about some program I wanted to do and a brother walked in and he heard that I wanted to teach arabic He was an arab fellow it was an egyptian fellow and he heard that I wanted to teach arabic And I’m- he’s like, “You?? Teach arabic?” I was like, “Yeah, a little bit.” and he said, “Where are you from?” I was like, “Pakistan..” and he said, “oh yeah?”, and he took out a napkin and he said write the alphabet for me So I wrote down the English alphabet for him And he said, “You see? You don’t know Arabic. And I was like, “Yeah, you’re right. I’m sorry.” And then he started teaching me the alphabet, 30 minutes I sat there, and I learned the alphabet with him and then he had to go, and then he left. And that night, that night at the same Masjid They asked me to give a lecture, The Importance of Learning Arabic, if you go on YouTube and you search, how to learn arabic, and why I learn arabic, why study Arabic? That lecture was at that Masjid, and that guy was in the first row- smiling at me the whole time. But he comes to me and says, “You, Pakistani. You’re gonna teach Arabic.” I’m gonna go, “Oh yeah, oh- No no no. “Hey, it’s okay. It’s alright. You’re right. I don’t know anything. It’s okay.” Don’t get worked up. Don’t get all full of yourself. If people speak to you in that way. It’s okay. They have a right. You know, and you don’t know why people speak to you in this way. There may be some other things going on in their life. You know and they come to you and they let their anger out on you. You have to be kind of- Merciful and courteous to people. There were women, there were men, that came to Rasululullah s.a.w. started yelling at him. From the Badwi. They were Muslim. They started yelling at him and you know, The Prophet s.a.w. didn’t get upset, he just- calmed them down. The Sahaba wanted to kill them. He said, “No. Relax.” Just peace, you know. This is the sunnah of The Prophet s.a.w. When people say things that make you angry, you just gotta- Calm down. And by the way guys, men over here, your wife will say a lot of things that make you angry, boy. And when you hear that, you don’t say that she’s jahil, but you do say, “Salaam.” Just be quiet. Don’t talk back. Sisters upstairs, ladies, your husbands will say things that will boil your blood. Oh my God, you will get angry. And Allah has given you a special power. I have three sisters, I have a wife and I have four daughters. I know girls have special powers and their superpower is they can answer you in a way that will- Like stab you in the heart. Oh my God! They have the most amazing answers. It was like, “AHH-” But you, sisters When your husband is out of control and he’s becoming too emotional or too angry, “Shh..” “Salaam.” Change the subject -and salaaman. Qalu salaaman, does not mean.. that Allah says you have to say Salaam and somebody’s will be fighting and you’ll be like, “Salaaman 3x.” Not like that. That’s not what that means. Let me tell you what salaam [is]. Salaam and could be a ‘hal’ here in grammar. You know what that means, they speak calmly. They don’t just say the word salaam, They speak calmly, they speak peacefully, they speak in a way that disharms. That doesn’t make you angry. You know? And so for example, you know one time I was sleeping in the Masjid. I was, i’tikaf And I was sleeping in the masjid, and you know when you’re sleeping you don’t know what which way you turn. So I’m sleeping and I woke up because somebody kicked me in the stomach. There’s a really old gentleman, in our community, it was an Irani fellow, and he was also doing i’tikaf. He didn’t speak any English, any Arabic. And it’s just- and he kicked me in the stomach. And I wake up and like- “Ohh..” Then look at him like- And he goes- My back was towards the- bookshelf, where the nasakh is.. You can’t have your back to the Quran, so he kicked me in the stomach. Now I could get up and say, “C’mon.. You could have woken me up nicely..” “I’m fasting, and then you kick me in the stomach too..” But you know what I did? I just hung out with him afterwards, just sat down with him.. I said, “Can I recite Quran to you. So you can correct my Quran?” And we spoke in sign language, and I recite the Quran to him and we just hang out the whole time You have to deal with people peacefully. You have to calm down when you deal with people. You will meet all kinds of people. All kinds of temperaments. Some of you are stuck with a boss. Innalillahiwainnailaihirojiun. Like he’s always angry. He wakes up angry. He he- you know, he’s eating and he’s angry. He’s angry when he’s smiling, even there’s nothing he’s angry. You know. You have that kind of a boss, but you know what? You have to learn to deal with it peacefully. Peacefully. You have employees. Some of you are teachers, you have students that make you angry. You’ve got to calm down. You can’t get angry in the classroom. Rasulullah s.a.w. has told- we were told.. “Allah sent us a teacher.” He sent us a teacher. He never got angry, at people. Never. You know? His servant is telling us, that he lived with him, and then he’s.. and he’d never told him, “Dude, why did you do this? Why didn’t you do this?” The entire time. Subhanallah. And that’s his slave. That’s not even his employee. That’s his slave. He never said this to them. [Sorry for any mistakes. Wallahualam.]

100 thoughts on “Never Get Angry | Nouman Ali Khan | illustrated | Subtitled

  1. Alhamdulillah … I know I can accept most of life's gifts and trials with peace and calmness … but when it comes to matters of the heart I know it can be so painful that you react angrily at first. But, then when the other person keeps doing and lying about the matters; what do you do but to be angry until the matter is solved… the problem cannot be solved privately, another qualified person(s) to solve the problem … insyaAllah.
    Ya Allah … Grant me sabr always Allah and keep me in the straight path … Ya Rabb โค
    Beautiful illustrations and voice over … Uztadz NAK JazakAllahu Khair โœ”โœ”โœ”

  2. i get angry on simple matters ! thanks! ^_^ it was very helpful! May ALLAH make us all peaceful towards the quarrel one's! ameeen!

  3. Brother u know it is haram to draw stuffs which does have lives for example men,animal. So i would prefer to u please make sure weathe u'r way of spreading islam is correct or not

  4. I get angry sometimes and I get upset at my self and feel ashamed afterwards. I pray that Allah cools my anger in the moment of stress.

  5. I get angry so much even on so small things and sometimes I gets angry with my elder too and starts shouting and I am trying to control my anger but don't know why I am not seeing good improvement ,There is an improvement but that's not enough .
    I have lost so many things because of Anger. Why why I am so so so short-temper?๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข I don't want to get angry but I always do! Inshallah my prayers will get acceptance soon.

  6. ู…ุงุดุงุก ุงู„ู„ู‡ ูƒู„ุงู…ู‡ ู…ุถุญูƒ ูˆููŠ ู†ูุณ ุงู„ูˆู‚ุช ุฌู…ูŠู„ ูˆู†ุงุตุญ

  7. ูŠุง ุฑุจ ุงูƒุถู… ุบูŠุถูŠ ูˆุงุฌุนู„ู†ูŠ ุนู„ูŠ ุฎู„ู‚ ุญุชูŠ ูˆุงู†ุง ุบุงุถุจุฉ

  8. Why have the devotees of Islam always been notorious for their anger, fanatical violence and hatred against those who question or reject Islam?

  9. I pray that my husband learns to forgive whenever i apologise. I pray that i learn how to control my anger, my tongue and my hands whenever im upset.May Allah guide me and him to be a better husband and wife. Jazakallahu khairon for this video.

  10. Yea shure surpress youre feeligns and just slowly grow mad from anger that can never be released just slowly grow depressed and just smile in front of everyone while youre slowly dying inside. Yea shure

  11. You Nailed it ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

  12. How can we react to these, please advise. 1. https://www.change.org/p/australian-government-ban-halal-certification-in-australia?recruiter=98861160&utm_source=share_petition&utm_medium=copylink&utm_campaign=share_petition
    2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mX4ycOGK81o
    3. https://youtu.be/z6STWBEV-H8

  13. I loved this soo much. Alhumdulillah. I am the emotional type and this was a wonderful lesson for me. A video I intend to watch again and again and again and again inshaAllah. Thank you for the video & I have subscribed too ๐Ÿ™‚

  14. plz also preach Islam in South Korea. Although they are so nice, respectful of elders and kind with youngers, modest, even don't mind keeping their ankles open (men) but majority are athiest population. because they have not been taught the truth in a manner they understand.

  15. My xxxxxxx always get angry with any troubles… then why always me become the target.. am i always wrong?..this isnt my fault.. i try to calmmm calmm and calmm until i cant hang it anymore(2 days ago), i dissapointed.. i just wanted to make xxx happy๐Ÿ˜ง… my grammar bad so you knoww then

  16. When I heard the whole video I noticed I might also need to teach my sisters about this,they are annoying they ridicule me,they boil my blood,but maybe I need distance between them.

  17. ahh…I had been waiting for so long that if only once Ustad Nouman would talk about Afghans…and finally he did…so funny๐Ÿ˜‚ and disappointing too ๐Ÿ˜

  18. Iโ€™m getting angry cause my in laws blaming me for everything but after watching this video I feel better alhamdulillah I will add u on my prayer in shaa Allah

  19. Masya Allah.. May Allah make myself worthy for someone who will complete half of my deen.. just like you, sir! Aamiin ๐Ÿ™

  20. but iam soooooooooooo sad ๐Ÿ˜ข ๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ขcause I am very calm person an everyday ever one insults me cause I donโ€™t reply people back I do sabr bat people take this wrong may Allah help me so tired ๐Ÿ˜ด iam gonna give up on my sabr

  21. I want to share this video just for Allah. All muslims have to listen you. ุฌุฒูƒุงู„ู„ู‡ ุฎูŠุฑุง

  22. May be it's not always the case, there are people who think they have right to disrespect you no matter how long you tolerate them… I didn't replied peacefully as you said but I didn't shouted either.. I usually let it go by overcomming anger BUT they always do the same mistake again and again after saying sorry (just in case I quit taking to them after bearing alot) otherwise they are very polite to others…
    May be it's because I'm her best friend and her support as well (her mom has same complain to her)..
    But why people always demand patience from us I've feelings too… I can't even escape..
    Why is life so miserable?
    I'm not losing hope on Allah either

  23. This is soo beautiful to hear, my heart just melted to the warmth of the description and the reassuring voice of the person you really are! … SubhanAllah. I also like the beautiful illustrations.
    JazakAllahu Khair ๐Ÿ˜€

  24. ุนู† ุฃุจูŠ ู‡ุฑูŠุฑุฉ ู‚ุงู„ ุฑุณูˆู„ ุงู„ู„ู‡ ๏ทบ :"ู„ูŠุณ ุงู„ุดุฏูŠุฏ ุจุงู„ุตู‘ูุฑูŽุนุฉุŒ ุฅู†ู…ุง ุงู„ุดุฏูŠุฏ ุงู„ุฐูŠ ูŠู…ู„ูƒ ู†ูุณู‡ ุนู†ุฏ ุงู„ุบุถุจ"
    Mohamed saw said :"The strong person is not the good wrestler. Rather,the strong person is the one who controls himself when he is angry"

  25. and most importantly never get angry especially at your parents.
    never raise your voice, belittle, or humiliate, or berate your parents in front of others.

  26. ุฏุงูŠู…ุง ูุงุถุญูŠู†ู†ุง ูƒุฏุงู‡ูˆูˆู‡๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”

  27. Brother, you are doing a Great Job and Showing the Real Face and Base of Islam. Love you, Brother. I'm From Pakistan.

  28. Great video animation every thing was so perfect and i loved is so much i really needed to learn how to bhe clam even tho whenever i get angry on someone i shut mu mouth but still i get so angry and want to stab that person in the face. But masha Allah and insha Allah after this ill try my best to clam

  29. Never angry with your wife
    Wife give much love for husband. ..she open your heart with love for your husband. .

  30. Ustad Nouman Ali u r just great. I'm 17 years old and I can't control my anger. I was feeling very angry for a while and thought let's get in to you tube and later ended up watching this. The incident where the Afghani dude who just kicked u on the stomach but u still remained calm is just shockingly awesome. Great thanks to Allah that he brought me up to this video. Everybody plz pray for me. Assalamualaikum.

  31. May Allah bless you. Alhamdulillah i have learned a lot from this video. May Allah guide all of us to be better muslims

  32. Some people act very bad in front of me they just try to make fun and laugh at me it's a girl and she's very agressive toward me may Allah Guide her I don't know why this happen to me ๐Ÿ˜ฟ

  33. I am chill bro and here is love for you from Pakistan โคโคโคโคโคโคโคโคโคโคโคโค

  34. i wish i could donate for you but i barely made out to go for month… i could donate by sharing this with friend and family… i will try to donate for you if i make extra earning. i know this is a good deed and i want to be part of it so when i died, when Allah s.w.t ask me what have i done for my religion, i could answer it that "this" is what i have done…

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